All too often I hear from both clients and friends,

“I have a website, but it is just not me” or, “I have a website, but I am embarrassed to tell people to go to it.”

Sound familiar?

If you have thought this, or know someone who has, you are not alone. A website is often an afterthought to many starter businesses.

More often than not,  people almost always think.

“I can do it myself, how hard can it be. ” or “I saw a, Create your website fast, easy and free ad”

Though, those options are always OK, they are usually not really your business a lot of  options and end up being more like a personal one pager.

Websites should be considered your tool for communication. They are there to talk to every person in the world about what you do, sell or offer when you are not available. It is a method of giving your future clients, or your current clients access to you 24 hours a day.

Did you know that the majority of the people in the world spend less than 15 seconds on the average website searching for potential information of interest? Even less on sites that they happen upon, or click ads to get to your website.

So that it is important to to get someone’s attention withing that 15 seconds.

Now if you were talking to people on the phone, you could only speak to 1 person every 15 seconds, but with a website, you could potentially speak to hundreds at a time, every 15 seconds.

So you might be thinking, “that’s easy” no? So allow me to ask you a couple questions.

  1. Are You a Graphic Designer?
  2. Ever configured hosting services?
  3. Do you have html and css knowledge?
  4. Do you know php?
  5. Ever set up an ecommerce site or membership site?
  6. Do you have knowledge of joomla or wordpress?
  7. Do you have a branding package?
  8. Do you know how to setup security for a web?
  9. Do you understand how SEO works?

These are just a few of the pieces of knowledge or expertise needed to create a truly captivating site. Although not every site requires all of that, and many can be done by installing simple plug and play WordPress plugins, so no big deal right?

Well I won’t tell you, you can’t or shouldn’t build your own site. I will say that if you want a site that really delivers you need to do a few things first.

  1. Talk to a Coach

Talk to a Coach if you have not already. This will help you get a true understanding of the direction your business needs to go. It does not matter if you are a coach or an entrepreneur, having an outside perspective who works to help you get your business going is not only a smart move. It helps with separating your personal feelings out of the way and keeping your website goals in focus.  We all think to ourselves “I know what I like.”

Of course you do, we all do, however what we might like, may turn off another person. Often people like things that do not really work or are not in the best interest of the business.

For example, your favorites colors are Bright Neon Green and Hot Pink.

To you this sounds really good, and you want your branded colors to be that, however your business is Coaching Executives to look more professional. These colors most likely wouldn’t really work. I know, I know, if you were a Professional Coach for Executives you would not be thinking in those colors, however you would be surprised the ideas people have for branded colors that do not understand the finer points of branding.

  1. Talk to a Designer

A designer can really help you.  They can take your branded colors and your information and organize them into a truly captivating site. You may consider yourself a designer, or may even be one, however if you are not, now is not the time to try to become an artist. Visually captivating does not mean Van Gogh or Jackson Pollack on a website.

Clean and beautiful are the keys of a great website. A designer will lay out your web ideas entailing use of color, ease of navigation, simplification of information, and know how to squeeze everything you want to say and the images you want to show into your website, in a way people can easily see.  A well designed site will know what makes people want to stay on your site and to want to learn more.

  1. Know your Targets

You should know always your target audience, this will help the designer. This is another thing a coach can help you out with, if you do not know who your audience is. A site that is visually captivating for a millennial may not work for the baby boomers. Knowing whom you are wanting to target will make sure your site is built to stand out.

  1. SEO

Yes that’s right SEO  (Search Engine Optimization), if you are unfamiliar with this, then you have some more research to do. It is the key to making sure that when people go searching Yahoo, Google or Bing or whatever search engine they may choose, they will find you.

This is accomplished by seeing that your content, use of words, traffic and Social Media, site architecture, trackers and more are organized in a way that makes it easy for the search engines to find and list you.

Back in the early days it was as simple as a couple lines of code that had your keywords and key phrases. But this system was abused by people using the alphabet as keywords and would type in keywords that had nothing to do with the actual content of their site. And of course this lead our searches ending in mountains and mountains of porn, sales pages, spam or just plain junk.

Now the system is refined. It is made to work for business like yours and ranking them, instead of the porn site first. With a designer who knows how to set those systems up in your favor, you can get listed near the top of the categories pertinent to your website.

  1. Someone to talk to.

Some designers just want your info, badda bing, badda boom, they build a website. Your input is not necessary, they just want to cookie cut the sites. In and Out and they are done.

After they are done, it is like you sat down at a busy restaurant, was served a meal and the Waiter is hovering around your table waiting for you to leave so he can reset your table for the next. You are mow left not knowing even how to use this website you just paid for, how to update it or even how to post your own blogs.

It is important to find a designer you can talk to. Someone who is not just emails, but will get on the phone, will screen share, and will be there to show you all about your site. One who will teach you how to manage and control the site as a tool in your business. You want to be able to know how it all works so if you need to, you can maintain it, or tell another you hire to maintain it the way you want.

No different than any device you own, you may not care how it was built, and every part that went in it, but you do want to know how the remote control works, in full.

One last and final thought.

Many people believe once a site is built that’s it. It is done no need to worry about it anymore. Here is my web address go check it out and have a nice day.

Wrong, so wrong. Your website, as I stated earlier, is a tool in your business. What I did not say then, is that it is a living breathing part of your business and should be as flexible as you are. It should be capable of changing quickly without the need for a full redesign. Your business is constantly moving, you have new programs or products, webinars, seminars, retreats and all the great things you all do.

So your website should also reflect that, a site that is a living and breathing part of your business will continue to get visitors, both new and repeat. No one is going to go to a site over and over that never changes nor offers anything new. They have been there, seen it, have the t shirt to prove it, and no need to go back.

Your website should be more like. “Oh Wow, there is a new video on about “This Guy is a Website Superstar” (see how I did that?)

That is what makes people come back over and over, and they want to know what you have to say or offer. They tell their friends who tell their friends, who tell their social media channel, who like your page and retweet your message of the day. And so, your audience is buzzing and a “Star is Born” on the good old interwebs.

Thank you for reading. (Tips his hat)


Did you notice the World news when taxi’s in America, Canada, UK and Australia made the headlines because they took kittens into the work place. This initiative aimed to help stressed workers and the recipients got to cuddle, play with and stroke these delightful kittens for 15 minutes. Also there is the chance to adopt a kitten if you love these cute felines. Part of the fee charged goes to cat rescue shelters.

What about puppies you ask? They are a possibility too. The fact that we love our pets is endearing. We are a world of animal lovers. They bring us unconditional love and affection (as long as we feed, water and stroke them). We have two dogs called Riley and Gretel who give the most amazing welcome as they hear the door open. A most wonderful way to return from work. Greeted with a waggy tails and nuzzling noses, enough to feel like King or Queen of the World.

Science stuff to back this up:

“Alan Beck of Purdue University, and a psychiatrist, Aaron Katcher of the University of Pennsylvania, actually measured what happens physically when a person pets a friendly and familiar dog. They found that the person’s blood pressure lowered, heart rate slowed, breathing became more regular and muscle tension relaxed-all of which are signs of reduced stress……. A study published recently in the Journal of Psychosomatic Medicine confirmed these effects, showing changes in blood chemistry demonstrating reduced amounts of stress related hormones. It is interesting to note that these positive psychological effects work a lot faster than many drugs taken for stress, since all of these effects occurred after only 5 to 24 minutes of pleasantly interacting with the dog.”

JoannaAbout the author:

Joanna Pemberton is a master NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and Hypnotherapist. She is dedicated to helping people manage their stress and anxieties through a variety of techniques.

You can find out more about Joanna at her website

I am just not in the mood to get all heavy today, so let’s talk on one of my favorite things, fun.Now it is summer time and you have to do fun stuff in the summer it is a law, okay maybe not but it should be.

( Note to self check into the steps to make this a law).

Now before you start thinking I would love to do some fun things this suimmer, but most things cost money than I have.  Think outside of the box! For those of you still stumped, that is what I am here for to be your guide to cheap summer fun. As you all know I am not a rich dog so I have to think about budget also, and since I have to include my sister and my humans in my fun, budget becomes very important.

Did you know during the summer a lot of musuems and galleries do specials on entrance fees and some even set aside one day a week usually on the weekends to get in for free?

How about a picnic, everybody loves to go on a picnic? And the cost is a little effort in the food prep, you can even get away with staying close if you go to the local park or playground.

Even setting the sprinkler in the yard can be fun, you are never to old to be a kid again. Be sure to take a minute and play. Life is too short not to play. What do all those things have in common very little or no money investment involved.

Now for a little money you can take advantage of movie specials, like two for one tickets or the matinee.

The point is, there are ways to enjoy your summer and have fun without breaking the bank. Summer does not always mean expensive vacation. Check in your area and find out but you might be surprised at all the things you can do to have fun and enjoy your summer.

Speaking of summer enjoyment, I am going to run around and roll in my soft green grass and play with one of my bones.

Till next week. Emmy


Let’s talk about risks and when to take them and when to play it safe. If you are like my sister she is not a big risks taker, which works for her. She is happy and comfortable with her life. But me on the other hand I like to push the limits. When I do I learn, grow and sometimes I even gain some cool new stuff.

But how do you know when to take the risk and when to say no thanks?  Trust me, this is something you need to make sure to think about. Now I do not mean that you need to have a brain racking session every time you need to decide to do something. But on the big decisions, and especially those which involve a risk, take a minute and weigh it out. Take it from me, the time spent can mean all the difference. I will share a story with you, even though I am kind of ashamed to say, I did not stop and weigh the consequences of one of my decisions, and I man did I paid. I was doing my nightly yard patrol when I saw a skunk in my yard.  He was minding his own business, so I could have just walked away, but without a second of thought I went running after him.  Let’s just say my human parents could smell me coming to the door long before I arrived. And the bath that followed was not at all fun. So now I try to be smart and think about things first. And when it comes to my safety and risks my human parents are pretty smart.

Now I am not saying all decisions can end badly. Just remember that in life or business you need to take a moment and weigh the Pros (how will this help me in my business or life, what will I gain form this choice) and the Cons (what will this cost me, how much time and effort will this involve, will this hurt others) I mean let’s be real, there is ALWAYS two side to everything: the good and not so good (or bad). You cannot live your life without risks. Even my sister knows that, just be smart with them. Make sure the benefits outweigh the bad.

That is all for now I am going to go risk bugging my mom at her desk and see if it gets me a puppy cookie, I have weighed the pros and cons and I think the risk is worth taking.

Till next week. Emmy